It seems only fitting to post this gorgeous wedding, the week of their one year wedding anniversary. We are so delighted to bring you an insight into a gorgeous South Australian Winter Wedding, held at Longview Estate, the Wedding of Emma and Darren.
Congratulations guys on your one year wedding anniversary and thank you so much for sharing with us, your beautiful love story and wedding!
Tell us about your love story so far. How did you meet, what was the proposal like?
Darren and I met through mutual friends. We had all gone into town to celebrate a friend’s birthday when he was my night in shining armour that saved me from a tall drunk man who was being very unpleasant!! Darren stepped in and told the man I was spoken for and it wouldn’t be very gentlemanly to steal another mans lady, and being the gentleman he is he didn’t leave my side for the rest of the night, and ensured I got home safe.
A few months later we had our first official date, and we’ve never looked back since, and that was over 9 years ago now. We had an amazing love for each other, we moved in together after I returned from an overseas holiday, both of us knowing we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
6 months later we found out we were expecting our first child.
In March 2008 we bought our first home. We signed the papers on my birthday! It was an amazing feeling, something we had worked so hard for. The stress leading up in this time was huge, it was at the same time the economy had become quite unstable. Darren took me out to our favourite place for dinner, The Bridgewater inn. We talked, held hands, dreamed about our future, in our house. I knew it meant getting engaged and married was something that would be on hold until our finances could recover.
After dinner we went for a walk, we walked down and on the flat in front of the large water mill which was all light up and looked amazing. I turned around to see Darren on bended knee and he asked if I would be his wife. It was the most unexpected, beautiful moment, where time just seemed to stand still. it was an amazing joyous moment. We then went back to the place we had our first date, where we sat laughing the night away.
Turns out he had asked my dad and my mum the night before if he could have their blessing to ask me to marry him. I had no idea, it was such a surprise, and im so glad it was. It made it even more magical and romantic being so unexpected!!
The ring is perfect. Its white gold with a brilliant cut diamond raised in the middle. It has 4 smaller diamonds on each side on the band. It couldn’t have been more perfect if I had picked it myself.
To this day I still catch myself starring at it smiling!!
All of our flowers (except the fresh flower petals and pink gyp) were artificial, and created by Ceri, from White Lies. (whitelies@live.com.au) I wanted beautiful romantic pieces that would last the day, and look great in every shot.
Ceri also used a stripped ribbon in the bouquets and buttonholes, giving them a unique appearance, which we loved.
The Gyp and rose petals came from Pride flowers onSouth Road.
Ceri from White Lies sprayed the Gyp a ballerina pink to match our colour scheme. It was perfect!!
Tell us about “The Dress”
I wanted something unique, something vintage but not dated. Something beautiful, but not over the top.
I didn’t want a strapless, but after trying on lots of different styles it seemed to be the most flattering.
I chose Maggie SotteroIreland, which as soon as I put it on, I felt like a princess. it was simple, classic and stunning.
Being a winter wedding I wanted something to keep me warm, and give the dress a more whimsical feel.
We had a tulle wrap made to clip on the inside of the dress, but the one the dress maker made was so small I couldn’t move my arms!! 2 weeks before my mum and I whipped up a bigger one, and added Swarovski crystals scattered through it.
We also had a blush pink fur wrap made for the reception which I just adore.
The Grooms Attire:
The groom was fitted out in a beautiful suit by Peter Shearer at Glenelg. They were stunning black suits with a very faint grey pinstripe, with white shirts. Darren wore a white vest and white tie, and the grooms men more black vest and black ties.
Our son was the image of his dad in the matching white vest and white tie.
What special touches did you do to help make your wedding unique?
We did so much ourselves, but probably some of the most personal touches include instead of a signing book, we had our names and wedding date painted on a piece cut from a tree, which everyone signed the back of, which we have varnished, and on display in our home.
We had a ‘memory lane’ which was photos, a collection of memories, inspirational quotes and moments from our lives trailing up the stair wells on twine, adorned with vintage keys.
The photos dated back to some of the first ever a photo taken of our ancestors, and every person at our wedding was pictured on the lane. They all touched our hearts and have left foot prints in our lives, we wanted them to see we value each moment, no matter how small. And thank them, for helping us become the people we are today.
We had lots of touches, like send off sparklers, a live band, a candy bar, a photo booth, every where you looked, we added a small personal touch.
When I got to the top of the aisle and saw Darren standing there, I saw him catch his breath as he saw me for the first time. It was the single moment I can honestly say where I felt as if the whole world stopped, and it was just Darren and I standing there. Saying our vows was so very special, and it was hard to get all the words out. It was hard to think after all these years, our ups and downs, we were finally here, and I was finally going to his wife.
We had the most beautiful vanilla butte rcake cupcakes with vanilla butter cream frosting and blush pink dusting with hand made pink roses by Just Tickled Pink. They were beautiful. Exactly what we imagined!
Our theme evolved over time, it became very much a vintage Parisian love affair, with romantic and whimsical details. Darren didn’t mind if it was girlie, he just wanted MNM’s in the candy bar!
“Enjoy the planning as much as you can, it is a journey onto your new life together. Make sure it reflects both of you, spend money on the things that are important to both of you (for us that was food and wine, our lighting or focal decorative piece, and entertainment) and save on the things that aren’t as important to you both.
And most of all, HAVE FUN!! It’s a beautiful, amazing time!! Enjoy it. xx”
Photography Credit : Elska Studios
Thank you so much for sharing your beautifully, romantic wedding with us and Happy Anniversary!
Until next time
Emma – THN













